Sex is everywhere — if we're not watching actual sex scenes on TV or in the movies, we're watching celebrities parade down red carpets practically naked. It's not just porn that sets unrealistic expectations for what's sexy anymore, and it can be hard to feel like you measure up when it comes time to get naked IRL. But if you want to keep sex fresh in a long-term relationship or you want to feel more confident in the bedroom, there are plenty of things you can do without going OTT. Just give these tricks a try. People should not have sex without talking about it — lovingly, salaciously, practically, fearlessly — and often. How else can we know how to thrill each other?

Give him the message Leave a trail of sexy undies from the front door to the bedroom for your man to follow. And be waiting for him naked when he gets there. Hats off When he's giving you oral sex, put the heel of your hand on your pubic mound and pull back slightly. Your clitoral hood will slide back, giving him access to your super-sensitive hotspot.

Sex has been around forever , but there still seems to be a never-ending curiosity gap about it. Are we all doing it? If so, how often? Are we doing it correctly? What else is there to try?