The best guide to sex positions and lovemaking techniques on the Internet. Ways to drive a woman wild in bed 1 Stimulate her G spot - and her "A spot"! You know about her G spot, I'm sure. It's that sensitive area of tissue that lies just inside her vagina on the upper wall as she lies on her back, about two inches inside. You can feel it with a fingertip as either a raised, ridged area or, if she's sexually aroused, a smooth, bump measuring about an inch or less from side to side. This change in texture is a good sign of how aroused she is - the more smooth, the more aroused.