No longer were we embarrassed to talk about our kinky side, but stay-at-home mothers and business women alike spoke about how they dreamt of meeting their own Christian Grey. Spanking can be something fun and flirty, or go as far as severe and painful. Many even consider the sting of the spank an aphrodisiac. So you can get your freak on every night and never get bored! Three blows in quick succession and while they weren't painful, they surprised me, which was why I reacted the way I did, calling out in shock and surprise.