My wife and I are in our forties and had been married for almost twenty years. We met back after college and had been each other's only sole sex partner in life. As the years pass though, we each began to formulate our own ideas on what we wanted out of life. The older we got the less exciting things had become. Our sex life that once was bustling and exciting, now had become dull and boring. We were lucky to do it a few times a month, and my wife hadn't orgasm in months.