I know some women hate performing oral sex on a guy, and I get it—having someone's junk thrusting inside your mouth and ugh, the annoying head push! But to me, there's nothing more empowering and exciting than to have full control of over a penis—and by effect, the man attached to it. Not to mention, unlike a hand job or even penetrative sex , men can't replicate the sensation of a blow job on their own obviously. Your mouth is wet and warm, like a vagina or a lubed-up hand , but your lips and tongue are living, roving, irreplaceable works of art.