The vaginal orgasm is often elusive, but people with clitorises and vaginas are seriously blessed. But lately a different kind of orgasm is making its way into the sex dialect: the blended orgasm. A blended orgasm is defined as a clitoral and vaginal orgasm that happens at the same time. Vaginal orgasms usually involve hitting the G-spot , which is located on the inner wall of the vagina. Stimulating the G-spot with regular pressure can lead to orgasm. So, hitting the G-spot can also stimulate part of the clitoris.

The problematic notion that vaginal orgasm is the norm for assigned women's experience of sexual pleasure can be traced back to Sigmund Freud, at least in part. Freud believed that orgasming from vaginal stimulation alone i. He believed this because he thought that the clitoris was a male organ, due to its structural similarity to a penis. Needing or wanting to stimulate these "male" parts for pleasure made women less feminine, and thus less mature.

Not clitoral. Others feel pressured to by society or their partner s. Whatever your reason, Ella, vaginal orgasms let you experience pleasure in a new way and enhance intimacy.