I know Baby Showers are traditionally a Girls Only event, with way too many frills, too much pastel and jokes about how your life is going to be such a messy stress from now on while the Boys are literally anywhere else. But nuts to that. Could we not, as a society, give the men in our lives a little more credit than that? Assume by default that perhaps they are complete, 3 dimensional human beings and not a cardboard cutout that is only interested in sports and beer? It should be about including both parents, not banishing all things feminine.